A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or
a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you
will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It is
usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have
come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a
godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason
you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realise is that our need has been met, our
desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you
sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON . . .
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount
of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said
that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Well, as I have said before the girls are definately Sci-fi mad and love Dr Who. This is a picture that Nik drew of a Dalek. She loves to run around the house with her arms outstretched in front of her saying Extermi-ate! Extermi-ate!.
We know she does not say the correct word, but it sounds (and looks) so cute!
Well today was a rather quiet day. The children, Tata and I just hung around the house doing our own things.
Tata was playing on the computer and happened to get the cleaning bug half way through the day so he stripped and cleaned the fridge, did the washing and also the toilets and bathrooms. I on the other hand preferred to spend the day checking out things for the girls home education, reading websites I hardly ever get to spend time on and working on a recent project we are undertaking (more about that a little later!).
The girls spent much of the day curled up on the couch upstairs watching Dr Who. I am not quite sure why we have a craze of Dr Who spreading throughout our house but both Nik and Jah enjoy talking about Dr who and which actor – Christopher Eccleston, David Tennant or Matt Smith is the best doctor. They take turns in watching the various episodes of Dr who and even at the ages of 4 and 9 rank the series into their most favourite and least favourite by which actor plays the DR and who his companion is at the time! – Tata and I just laugh at it all – two very Sci fi girls we have here!
And their verdict is:
Christopher Eccleston & Rose Tyler
David Tennant & Rose Tyler
David Tennant & Martha Jones
Matt Smith & Amy Pond
David Tennant & Donna Noble!
It’s funny how every day when we are searching for answers and learning from the world around us, just how many random pieces of information we learn along the way. Some of this information is enlightening, some of it amazing and some of it gives us a laugh, but usually most of it we forget until something triggers or memory and makes us utter a statement similar to…
I recall something about….. and we take the opportunity to recall this information to share with others…
Well I thought I would start to share some of these random moments with you as they enter our lives. So I have started writing them down and collecting them… all so that I can share them here with you…
When trying to write poetry, we realised that there are no words in the dictionary that rhyme with: orange, purple, and silver.
While watching a documentary a few days ago about Crocodiles we learnt that a crocodile cannot stick its tongue out.
While also watching another documentary about Dolphins we learnt that Dolphins sleep with one eye open.